“I Want A Divorce”

Posted: October 5, 2017 in Bible Study, Christian Life, Prayer

No Intelligent Conversation

A woman went to a lawyer and said she wanted a divorce. The lawyer got out his note pad, and proceeded to ask her some questions. Do you have any grounds?” he inquired. Oh, yes,” she replied. “About three-quarters of an acre.” The lawyer paused for a moment, then queried, “Do you have a grudge?” No,” the woman answered quickly. “But we do have a lovely carport.” Again the lawyer paused and then asked, “Does he beat you up?” No. I get up before he does every morning,” the woman reported. Finally the lawyer blurted, “Lady, why do you want to divorce your husband?” It’s because,” she explained, “that man can’t carry on an intelligent conversation.” (1)

Questions: We may laugh at this story. But, if you’re married, what kind of conversations do you have with your spouse? What about your communication with God? How often do you have them? Is God your real Father or is the devil your father (John 8:44; 1 John 3:9, 10)? How does one become a true child/son of God (Acts 16:31; 1 Corinthians 15:3, 4; Galatians 3:26)? How many of the eight forms of communication with God can you name? How often do you engage in them (1 Thessalonians 5:17)? Why and when do you reach out to God for His help (See James 1:17; 4:1-6)? If prayer doesn’t change things, what/who does?

Pleased/Grieved? If you’re a true Christians, do you believe that God is pleased or grieved with your communication with Him (2 Corinthians 5:9; Ephesians 4:30)? Do you have unconfessed sins in your life (Proverbs 28:13)? What does God want you to do about them (1 John 1:9; James 5:16)? What needs to change in your life? When will you begin to do this (James 4:17)?

Born Again? Have you been “born again from above” (John 3:3-6)? Why should God let you into His heaven? If you believe that you’re saved, is there anything you could do or fail to do that would cause you to lose your salvation? If so, what would it be? If you’re saved, have you been baptized/immersed (Matthew 28:19, 20)? Have you dedicated your body to God as a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1, 2)? Are you growing in the sphere of grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (2 Peter 3:18)?

Eight Ways. To learn more about the eight ways to effectively communicate with God, go to https://kelseypeach.wordpress.com/2011/11/01/praying-to-an-unknown-god/ Then see if you could use some of these same forms of communication in your marriage with your spouse or with your children and other people. Let us know if your life improves because you employ them in your life.

Help. We’re here to assist those who are teachable and willing to change (2 Timothy 2:2, 15). We can be reached through our website: www.kelseypeach.com. We invite you to join us on Facebook live for Bible Studies.  www.facebook.com/kelseyandjanet.pietsch and on www.youtube.com.

  1. Brent Barlow in Salt Lake City Desert News  https://bible.org/illustration/no-intelligent-conversation  https://bible.org/illustration/communication-marriage

If you’re not sure about your salvation, please read “The Clear Gospel” at: http://www.cleargospel.org/wp-content/uploads/English-Display-Pkg-2014.pdf  

To help you understand the Bible better, we recommend the Scofield Study Bible: http://www.cheapestbookprice.com/prices/9780195275520-the-scofield-study-bible-iii-nkjv-indexed

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