Archive for the ‘Attitude’ Category

Believe it or not, you can learn a lot about a person by discovering what makes him/her angry, what makes him/her cry, and what makes him/her laugh. Apply this to yourself.

“A real test of the genuineness of Christian profession is witnessed when one finds himself under pressure, provocation, or persecution…Our reaction to a sudden, unexpected change of condition or circumstances shows up a weakness in many of us.  Some Christians are thrown completely off balance if anyone disagrees with them, and under more trying circumstances they go completely to pieces.” – Dr. Lehman Strauss. What sets you off?

Attitude. A key to the problems of life has to do with the attitude. What is your attitude when you are suddenly stopped short of your goal that was part of your planning? Do you resent the circumstances? Do you become angry with God or with others because you didn’t get your way? Be honest. “There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death” (Proverbs 14:12). Is it your way or the highway? Is it God’s way or your way as one secular song suggests?

Submission. One songwriter put it this way: “Not what wish to be / Nor we are wish to go /For who am That should choose my way? / The Lord will choose for me / ‘Tis better far I know, / So let him bid me go or stay!” When facing the cross, Jesus said, “Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from Me; nevertheless not My will, but Yours, be done” (Luke 22:42). Are you interested in doing God’s will or your will? How often are God’s thoughts and ways brought into your decision making (Isaiah 55:7-9)?

Reactions. The Apostle Paul’s response of rejoicing in the Lord in the midst of his circumstances had a profound effect on some unbelievers, some believers, and even upon himself. Ask yourself, “What are others learning about me by my words, actions, and reactions?” Do they bring glory to God or do they grieve Him (1 Corinthians 10:31; Ephesians 4:30; Psalm 19:14)?

Guards. Being under house arrest (Acts 28:30), Paul was chained to many, elite Roman soldiers. They were his captive audience. They observed him day and night and soon learned that he wasn’t an ordinary prisoner but was there because of his faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and his passion to spread the Gospel to others. Many were saved by Paul’s life and the Gospel that came forth from his lips.

In Prison. Some Bible teachers believe that Paul was in prison because he didn’t heed the warnings that had been given to him by the Holy Spirit (Acts 21:4, 12-14). Even though he was willing to die for Christ, “To want to die for Christ is all wrong when God wants you to live and preach the Gospel.” – Dr. H. L. Schafer. “For as many as are [habitually being] led by the Spirit of God, these are [maturing] sons of God” (Romans 8:14).

Blessing. But even when we mess things up, God has a way of turning them around for good for His children who love Him (Romas 8:28). Paul needed a rest and some time to reflect/meditate (See Psalm 1:2; 46:10; Philippians 4:8; 1 Timothy 4:15). So he used his time to write letters to churches and individuals to instruct them and to share with them grace teaching/truths that He had received from the Lord during his time with the Lord in Arabia (Galatians 1:17). Could you write a letter, call someone, or give a word of encouragement to someone in need? (See 2 Corinthians 1:3, 4; Hebrews 10:24, 25) If you can, will you do it? When? Today?  What is really important to you – other people in need or your own personal pleasures?

Satan. He will try to convince some unsaved people that they aren’t savable and could never be forgiven for the sins they’ve committed. He often reminds Christians of past failures that have been forgiven (Ephesians 1:7; 1 John 1:9) and would cause us to become disappointed, discouraged, and even to doubt God and His Word. When he or demons tempt us, we must put on the armor that God has provided for us to be victorious (Ephesians 6:10-17). Do you also know how to overcome temptations that come from your sin nature, and from the present world system? Being tempted isn’t a sin, but yielding to sinful temptations is sin (“Sin is lawlessness.” 1 John 3:4; Romans 3:10, 23; 6:23).

Plans/Goals. “Make plans and set goals which are in keeping with God’s written Word. Arrange them into priorities. Plan your strategy. Submit your goals to God’s sovereign will. If God providentially hinders you from accomplishing your goals, assume that the delay was part of God’s sovereign will. This will free you from discouragement. All you’ll need to do is adjust your time table.” – Adapted from Gary Friesen, Decision Making And The Will of God. p. 239

Effects. Paul’s attitude of rejoicing in the midst of his imprisonment stimulated other believers to become more bold in their witness for the Lord (See Acts 4:13-31; 1 Thessalonians 5:18). He wasn’t discouraged because God’s love had been shed abroad in his life and this helped him overcome his fears (Romans 5:5; 2 Timothy 1:7; 1 John 4:18).

Motives. Yes, there were some people who were proclaiming the Gospel from envy and strife, but others were proclaiming it from goodwill (Philippians 1:15; Galatians 5:19-21; Romans 1:16). Either way, he was glad that others were learning about Christ and His offer of salvation to all mankind (1 Timothy 2:4; 1 John 2:2). We should always be ready to give an answer to those who ask us about our hope/confident expectation in Christ (1 Peter 3:15; 2 Timothy 4:2). Are you prepared to do this? Have you ever led another person to Christ for salvation? Would you like to learn more so you can do this and earn the “Crown of Rejoicing” (1 Thessalonians 2:19, 20; Ephesians 4:11)?

Formula. For someone to be saved from having to spend eternity with the devil and his angels in the lake of fire (Matthew 25:41, 46; Revelation 21:8) and to go to heaven to be with God (John 14:1-3), one needs to use the right formula. “Grace + Faith = Salvation + Good Works (Ephesians 2:8-10). It is not “Grace + Faith + Good Works = Salvation” (Titus 3:5). Note the difference.  Make sure the Gospel for salvation is presented clearly to them.

25 Words. These few words could result in a dying person’s or anyone’s instant salvation. “My Friend, You have sinned. But Christ died for sinners and rose again. Trust Him alone and He will save you eternally. Do it now!” – Dr. M. Kober [1]. (Read Romans 3:23; 6:23; 1 Corinthians 15:3, 4; Acts 16:31; 1 John 5:13; 2 Corinthians 6:2; Proverbs 27:1; James 4:14.)

Witnesses. Jesus wants every Christian to be a witness to unbelievers so they can be saved (Acts 1:8). The devil will try to intimidate and discourage you (2 Timothy 1:7; 1 Peter 5:8), but with God’s help you can do what He wants you to do (Philippians 4:13). The Apostle Paul was willing to endure all things so others could be saved (2 Timothy 2:10). To what extent would you go so others could be saved?

Investment. Why not invest your life in others? Chuck Swindoll gives these suggestions: “Ask God to give you a sensitive spirit for identifying someone to disciple. Be on the alert – don’t scratch anybody off your list of possibilities [as long as they are still alive]. Reach out slowly and informally. Before your time together is over, make specific plans to meet again.” – Discipleship, p. 99

Questions. What makes you angry/mad? What makes you sad and causes you to cry? What makes you laugh and rejoice in the Lord? Are you truly saved or just a “professing Christian?” If you’re truly saved, are you growing spiritually, and serving God and others?  Are you regularly sharing the Gospel with the lost? Do you have all your known sins confessed to God (1 John 1:9; James 5:16; Proverbs 28:13; 29:1)? Do you want to do God’s will more than anything else? Are you struggling with sinful temptations (See 1 Corinthians 10:13; 2 Peter 1:3)? Are you tired of living a defeated life? If so –

Help. We’re here to assist you and others who are teachable and willing to change (2 Timothy 2:2, 15; 3:16, 17). We can be reached through our website: www.kelseypeach.com with your questions/comments. Join us on Facebook and Youtube for our Bible studies. Click on “Follow” to receive future articles as they come out. Send us your questions/comments. If this has helped you, please share it with others.

[1] Dr. Manfred Kober, https://www.faith.edu/1993/02/do-we-really-know-the-gospel/

(Philippians –  Lesson #8)

Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired all the time? Has all the happiness and joy in life been drained out of you? Would you like to have God’s quality of life and have it more abundantly (John 3:16; 10:10)? Perhaps you’ve heard this song by Joseph D. Carlson: “If you want joy, real joy, wonderful joy, / Let Jesus come into your heart. (Repeat) / Your sins He’ll wash away, / Your night He’ll turn to day, / Your life He’ll make it over anew. / If you want joy, real joy, wonderful joy, / Let Jesus come into your heart.” [1]

New Heart. Sadly, he didn’t quite get it right. God doesn’t want to come into our sinful hearts (Jeremiah 17:9). Instead He wants to give us a new heart (mind, will, emotions) and a new nature from above (2 Peter 1:4; John 3:3-6). This occurs when we place our faith exclusively in the Lord Jesus Christ, who died for our sins…and rose again bodily on the third day (Acts 16:31; 1 Corinthians 15:3, 4). Although we still retain our old sin nature even after we are saved (1 John 1:8; Romans 7:15-25), we have a new potential to please God (2 Corinthians 5:9) and to do the desirous will of God for our lives. Are you doing it or doing what you want to do independently of God?

Happiness. This can be an elusive feeling that comes from having things going our own way. But there is a way that seems right but that can lead to death (Proverbs 14:12; Judges 21:25).

Joy. This is one of nine things that God the Holy Spirit produces in the life of a Spirit filled believer (Ephesians 5:18) and it’s known as The Fruit of the Spirit” (Galatians 5:22, 23). Likeagape” love, this joy that comes from God, needs to directed properly toward the right objects, at the right time, for the right reasons. Just as God’s love can be misdirected toward the present world system (1 John 2:15-17), so true joy can be misdirected away from God, His Word, and His children, to the temporal and vanishing things of this life.

Me Worry? The Apostle Paul wrote, Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4). When the believer’s delight is in the Lord and His Word (Psalm 1:2) and as we think and meditate about all that He has done for us (Ephesians 1:3 ff; Colossians 3:1 ff), there is nothing that can shake us and cause us to worry and fear (Philippians 4:6-8; 1 Timothy 4:15; Romans 8:35-39). No trial, temptation, or challenge can come our way without His approval or permission (James 1:12-15; 1 Corinthians 10:13). When we, as believers, successfully overcome temptations that come from the devilour old sin nature, or the present world system, we let God know that we love Him more than the temporary pleasures that this life offers (Hebrews 11:25). This pleases God (2 Corinthians 5:9). Sadly, many Christians grieve God (Ephesians 4:30).

On Being Joyful

The Apostle Paul encouraged the believers in Philippi to follow his example and be joyful Christians (Philippians 4:4). Here are a few things that helped him do this.

Self Image (Philippians 1:1). He knew what he had been prior to His encounter with the Lord. He considered himself to be a chief sinner” (1 Timothy 1:15). Having been saved, he voluntarily became a bondservant of Jesus Christ” (Romans 12:1, 2; 1 Peter 3:15; See Exodus 21:6; Deuteronomy15:17). He demonstrated his servanthood to God by serving for the advantage of other believers as the steward of this dispensation of grace” (Ephesians 3:1 ff; Galatians 5:13; 6:10). He also saw himself as being part of the New Creation” (Ephesians 2:15; 2 Corinthians 5:17), and a member in the Body of Christ, the true Church” (Romans 12:3; 1 Corinthians 12:12, 13).

Grace & Peace (Philippians 1:2). Paul knew that his salvation was due to the grace of God which he didn’t deserve (Ephesians 2:8, 9). Upon his becoming a Christian, he had peace with God” and no longer was he God’s enemy (Romans 5:1, 10). He could enjoy the peace of God” as long as he was filled by the Spirit” (Ephesians 5:18) and walked by means of the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16, 25). Yes, there were times when the Apostle Paul struggled with and gave in to the temptations that came from his sin nature (Romans 7:15-25). God doesn’t want us to sin, but He knows that we will sin periodically. This is why we have an Advocate with the Father who satisfied His outraged holiness against our sin nature (1 John 2:1 ff). Jesus is the one and only Mediator between us and God (1 Timothy 2:5). All true Christians are priests who are to offer spiritual sacrifices to God (Romans 12:1, 2; Hebrews 13:15, 16) and Jesus is the High Priest (1 Peter 2:5, 9; Hebrews 7:25, 26; 4:15, 16).

A Thankful Heart (Philippians 1:3). Paul wrote, I thank my God upon every remembrance of you” [Philippians 1:3). He was responsible, from a human standpoint, of bringing these people to Christ. They knew how he and Silas were mistreated and beaten there in Philippi for the cause of Christ so they could be saved (Acts 16:16 ff; 2 Timothy 2:10; 3:12). One of the evidences of being filled with the Spirit” is that a believer will have a singing, thankful, and submissive heart (Ephesians 5:18-21). We’re instructed to give thanks in all situations (1 Thessalonians 5:18), for all things (sin apart) and for all men (Ephesians 5:20; 1 Timothy 2:1 ff).

Prayer (Philippians 1:4). God has given believers eight ways to communicate with Him: worship, praise, thanksgiving, supplication, intercession, asking in Jesus’ name, confession, and making vows. It’s a shame that so many Christians limit their communication with Him to asking and receiving” and then failing to give thanks to Him for His good and perfect gifts that come from above (James 1:17).

Fellowship (Philippians 1:5). Too often fellowship is associated with potluck meals” rather than sharing spiritual things in common with God and other believers. (See Ephesians 4:1-6) If Christians are to have fellowship with God, we must walk in the light as He is in the light” (1 John 1:7). We must order our lives by the standard that God has given to us. They involve grace principles” rather than by law principles” (Romans 6:14; 3 John 1:4). See our “Understanding The Times – Dispensations Chart” on our website.

Confidence (Philippians 1:6). God always finishes what He begins. Our salvation comes to us in three phases. When we place our faith and trust in Christ alone as our personal Savior, we are immediately saved from the penalty of sin (Romans 8:1). We are being saved from the power of sin (Romans 6:14; Galatians 5:16). We shall be saved from the presence of sin when we die or are raptured (Romans 8:23).

Concern (Philippians 1:7, 8). When we have God’s love operating in our lives, we should direct it back to God and His children first (John 13:34, 35; 1 John 3:16, 17; Galatians 6:10), rather than toward the present world system (1 John 2:15-17). We won’t /shouldn’t think of ourselves more highly than we should think (Romans 12:3). Perhaps you remember this song by B. Metzger. Jesus and others and you, What a wonderful way to spell joy! Jesus and others and you, in the life of each girl and each boy. “J” is for Jesus, for He has first place, “O” is for others you meet face to face, “Y” is for you, in whatever you do. Put yourself third and spell JOY.”

Expectations (Philippians 1:9-11). The Apostle Paul knew that God could do far more than he could ask or think in the lives of those who were submissive to Him (Ephesians 3:20; James 4:7). His prayer was that their love might abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment, that they might approve the things that are excellent, that they might be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ, and that they might be filled with the fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.

Glory (Philippians 1:11). God’s primary purpose/objective is to make Himself known to His creatures – both human and spirit beings (John 14:13; 17:4; Philippians 2:11). It ought to be every Christian’s purpose/goal/objective in life to glorify God through everything that we say and do (1 Corinthians 10:31; John 15:8; Psalm 19:14).

Gospel (Philippians 1:12-15). Even though Paul was in prison for the cause of Christ, his bold witness to the elite Roman soldiers resulted in some of them being saved. They were Paul’s captive audience. They observed how he lived and related to those who came to visit him in prison (Acts 28:30). He told them about Christ and why he was there for insisting that Jesus was indeed the promised Messiah who died for our sins and rose again bodily from the dead (2 Timothy 2:8-10).

Quote. Joy is a matter of attitude that stems from one’s confidence in God – that He is at work, that He is in full control, that He is in the midst of whatever has happened, is happening, and will happen.” – Chuck Swindoll, Laugh Again, p. 34

Your Sail. One ship sails east. One ship sails west. Regardless of how the winds blow, it is the set of the sail, and not the gale that determines the way that we go.” – C.R.S. In which direction will your sail be set – for Joy or for Sorrow.

Help. We’re her to assist those who are teachable and willing to change (2 Timothy 2:2, 25; 3:16, 17). We can be reached through our website: www.kelseypeach.com. To receive future articles as they come out, click on “Follow.” Join us on Facebook and Youtube for our Bible studies.

[1] https://hymnary.org/text/if_you_want_joy_real_joy_wonderful_joy 

 

(Philippians – Lesson #7)

One ship sails east

One ship sails west

Regardless of how the winds blow.

It is the set of the sail

And not the gale

That determines the way we go.” [1]

During my summer vacations, when I was a teenager growing up in Japan, I loved to go out on a small sailboat on Lake Nojiri in the Japan Alps. [2] It was a little bigger than a surf board and had a center board, a rudder, and a sail. I’d lie down on it and steer it with my feet. I got pretty good at it and could go almost anywhere as long as there was a wind and if I had set my sail properly.

Storms. Life throws a lot of adverse winds at us and the devil wants to discourage, disappoint, and cause us to doubt God and His Word. But when we, as believers, put on the whole armor of God, and resist the devil, we can overcome him and live a life that pleases God (1 Peter 5:8; James 4:7; Ephesians 6:10-17; 2 Corinthians 5:9). Are you grieving God (Ephesians 4:30) or pleasing Him?

Choices. We all have choices to make every day. We can get all upset, complain, and question God and His plan for our lives just as the Jews in the wilderness did. If we do, we can/should expect to suffer similar consequences as they did (1 Corinthians 10). On the other hand we can give thanks with a grateful heart and let others know that we have a God who is bigger than all our challenges in life (1 John 4:4). God wants us, as believers, to give thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:18), for all things and people that He allows to come into our lives (Ephesians 5:20; 1 Timothy 2:1). The Apostle Paul wrote, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13; See Ephesians 2:10; 1 Peter 4:10 NKJV). Are you giving thanks to God with a grateful heart? [3] From prison he wrote to some believers and encouraged them to rejoice in the Lord always (Philippians 4:4).

Freedom. Having had virtually everything stripped from him during his concentration camp experience in World War II, Dr. Victor Frankl wrote, “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances…”.

Pride/Humility. The once proud King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon leaned his lesson well when he shared his personal testimony after God humbled him. “Now I, Nebuchadnezzar, praise and extol and honor the King of heaven, all of whose works are truth, and His ways justice. And those who walk in pride He is able to put down” (Daniel 4:37 NKJV). Pharaoh, who wouldn’t humble himself before God, was brought down by the mighty hand of God and he and his soldiers perished in the Red Sea (Exodus 15:4).  

Application. Are you proud of your race, place, or face? Wait just a minute. “For who makes you differ from another? And what do you have that you did not receive? Now if you did indeed receive it, why do you boast as if you had not received it” (1 Corinthians 4:7 NKJV)? Furthermore, “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the humble” (James 4:7 NKJV).  

Outlook. We, as Christians, can look at life from a human perspective or through God’s eyes knowing that “…all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose. For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.” (Romans 8:28 NKJV). Read that again slowly. “Our troubles didn’t come to stay, but to pass.” But not so for those who die physically without the Lord Jesus Christ as their personal Savior (Read Matthew 25:30, 41, 46; Revelation 21:8).

Bad News/Good News. “Friend, You have sinned. But Christ died for sinners and rose again. Trust Him alone and He will save you eternally. Do it now!” – Dr. Manfred Kober [4].  Have you shared this information with an unbeliever recently? Apart from the Gospel, no one can be saved (1 Corinthians 15:3, 4; Romans 1:16, 17; 10:9-17).

Promises. [5]“God will keep His promises whether we believe them or not.” Knowing them and claiming the ones that were given to us as New Testament Christians can result in a “worry free life.” “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6, 7 NKJV).

Help. We’re here to assist you and others who are teachable and willing to change (2 Timothy 2:2, 15; 3:16, 17). We can be reached through our website: www.kelseypeach.com. To receive future articles as them come out, click on “Follow.” Join us on Facebook and Youtube for our Bible Studies.

[1] Adapted from Ella Wheeler Wilcox, “The Winds Of Fate”

[2] Lake Nojiri – Pictures: https://www.google.com/search?q=images+lake+nojiri&tbm=isch&source=univ&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiHgpKjzqLiAhVMmK0KHY2zCbYQsAR6BAgJEAE&biw=896&bih=445

[3] Give Thanks – Song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXBxImes110

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMTmZKotTYw

[4] Dr. M. Kober, https://www.faith.edu/1993/02/do-we-really-know-the-gospel/

[5] Promises: https://kelseypeach.wordpress.com/2019/04/01/promises-for-christians-to-claim-2/