Archive for the ‘Fathers’ Category

  “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names and faces can’t hurt me.”  Do you believe that?  I don’t.  Names and faces can and do hurt us emotionally.

  Good Pain.  Believe it or not, “There is good in pain, privation, suffering, and bereavement.  They correct evil, prevent evil, develop character, produce enterprise, sympathy, and prepare for eternity.”  God uses some of these things to chasten His true children for their good and His glory (Hebrews 12:5-8; John 8:44).  The wicked who seem to get away with murder will have their day in the court of Judge Jesus (Revelation 20:11-15).

  Bullies.  You can find them in schools and in the work place.  I encountered one when I was in the eighth grade.  The bully was a sophomore (a wise fool).  He used to pick on me all the time until I got exasperated and challenged him to a fight.  Scared?  You bet I was.

  Missionary Kids.  Imagine this.  Two missionary kids living in Japan going at it as a crowd of other students watched.  I was sure my face would be disfigured and rearranged when it was all over.  But I had never had an occasion to put into practice what I had been learning in my Judo classes.  To my surprise and his embarrassment I pinned him in a matter of seconds.  That was the extent of my “fighting career.”  That night I snuck into the house to make sure my dad didn’t find out about it.  I knew I’d be in big trouble if he did.

   A Good Father“He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly” (Proverbs 28:13).  Read that again.  “Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him” (King Solomon, Proverbs 22:15).

  Persecution.  Religious persecution has gone on for eons.  Rather than trying to convert others with the use of words, many religious groups have resorted to the sword to bring about the conversion of others.  We deplore such methods.  Salvation is by grace through faith in Christ.  It is not of works lest anyone should boast (Ephesians 2:8, 9).

  Hatred.  Have you ever wondered why the religious Jews hated the Apostle Paul? After all, he was a Jew himself, and had been a Pharisee.  It seems like everywhere he went there was a riot and/or revival.  Some Jewish leaders hated him because he taught that Jesus was God manifested in human flesh (Philippians 2:5-11), and that salvation was by grace through faith in Him alone, and not by their works of righteousness (Titus 3:5).  They thought Jesus couldn’t be God because He didn’t measure up to their particular expectations (John 8:41-59; 1 Corinthians 1:23).  They wanted a conquering King to deliver them from Rome’s oppression, not a suffering Savior who would end up crucified on a cross.  They also hated Paul because he offered salvation to the Gentiles (non-Jews) without their becoming proselyte Jews first (Acts 15:5; 22:18, 19).  This really irritated them.

  Resurrection.  Paul’s insistence that the bodily resurrection of Jesus Christ be included in the Gospel message also got him into trouble (2 Timothy 2:8, 9).  You might ask, “Why?”  The bodily resurrection of Jesus Christ ensures other resurrections.  His is the first sample of other bodily resurrections to follow.  Death doesn’t end everything.  Unbelievers are not annihilated at death as some cults teach, nor are people reincarnated into another life (Hebrews 9:27).  Some day every human being, who has ever been conceived, will be raised from the dead (1 Corinthians 15:22-24). Do you know in which one of the five resurrections you will participate?  You better make sure it’s not the last one or you’ll be in big trouble (Revelation 20:11-15).

  Abortion.  Think about all the babies that have been aborted in their mother’s womb.  Do you think God isn’t aware of such things?  He is omniscient and omnipotent.  In the Old Testament times the Gentiles and rebellious Jews took their live babies and threw them into the fire to offer their children to their idols (2 Chronicles 28:3).  All of them will be raised from the dead someday.  What will they have to say to those who hurt and aborted them?  Yes, judgment day is coming (Hebrews 9:27).  God will take vengeance on all unrepentant sinners who refused the pardon He offers to sinners like you and me (Romans 12:19).

  Truth Hurts.  When your doctor tells you that you have cancer, it brings pain into your soul (emotions).  But when he tells you there is a cure, you get hope.  When someone tells you that you are in danger of going to hell, you might be offended.  But when he shows you from the Bible how to avoid that awful place, it ought to make you happy.  Instead, some people get mad when they are told that this deliverance from hell can only be gained by faith, not by their good works.  Man wants to earn his own way to heaven but it can’t be done.  Nor does he want to admit that he deserves to go to hell.  He is proud, self righteous, and thinks he is pretty good.

  How Bad?  Have you ever wondered what God thinks about mankind?  It isn’t pretty (Romans 3:10-23).  True, we’re not all as bad as we could be.  But we’re all as “bad off” as we can be until we have Christ’s perfect righteousness put to our account (Romans 4:24).  At his point I realize that some of you may be thinking, “He is crazy.”  That’s what others, including Christ’s half brothers said about Him too (Mark 3:21).  God’s simple plan of salvation seems foolish to the natural, self sufficient man (1 Corinthians 2:14).  What about you?  Are you sinless?  I’m not.  That’s why I need a sinless Savior to be my substitute.

  Sticks And Stones.  On several occasions the Apostle Paul was beaten with rods and once he was stoned to death.  But God resuscitated him after giving him a glimpse of Paradise (2 Corinthians 11:24, 25; 12:1-5).

  Suffering.  Have you ever suffered for being a Christian?  Many people have been tortured for Christ and many more will be mistreated in the future.  Jesus suffered the most as He bore our sins on the cross.  After being dead for three days, He rose again bodily from the grave never to die again (1 Corinthians 15:1-8).  Presently He is seated at God the Father’s right hand in heaven (Acts 2:33).  Jesus is waiting for those whom the Father has given to Him to believe on Him and be saved.  Then He will come back for the true believers and raise the dead in Christ from the grave to be with Him forever (John 6:37; 14:1-3).  Are you in or out of that group?  How secure are you?

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  This article corresponds to one of our talks on Sundays at the Grace Baptist Church, 535 Creston Road in Paso Robles.  We also have “Discussion Questions” we use to amplify these thoughts during our Bible studies in the middle of the week.  Ask about them.

  When asked by his friend, a youngster answered by saying, “Father’s Day is a lot like Mother’s Day except you can get your Dad a cheaper gift.”

  Memories Of Father.  Memories, like fire, can both bless with warmth and burn with searing heat.  The memories you have of your father may be pleasant or very painful.  Perhaps you have mixed emotions.  Some of you were privileged to have a loving father who cared for you to the best of his ability.  Others of you come from very painful homes where you were abused physically, emotionally, or perhaps in some other ways.  You may have some deep scars that still bring you a lot of emotional and/or physical pain.  You may carry these with you for the rest of your life.  Don’t feel like you’re the only one who has such scars.  Most of us have them.

  Consider Adoption.  You can choose to keep your focus on those painful experiences in your life and die in misery and bitterness.  Otherwise you can choose to redirect your thinking to another Father who is willing to adopt you into His family.

  Tell Me More.  This Father is strong yet gentle.  In fact He is all powerful.  He always does what is right.  He’s compassionate, often giving to His children what they don’t deserve.  He is creative, and always keeps His word.  He delights in the happiness of all His children.  He knows and understands them like no other person can. He will tell them the truth in love. He will maintain His own moral integrity and will love His children always.

  Sign Me Up.  Perhaps you’re asking, “How can I make Him my Father?”  If you’d like to be adopted into this family, there are some things that you must do.

  You must admit that you don’t deserve to be adopted into this family because you are a sinner like all the rest of us.  You may not be as bad as others are, but you are still a sinner who deserves to be eternally separated from God in hell (Romans 3:10-23; 6:23).  Until you’re willing to admit this, there is no hope for you.  Don’t let your pride send you to hell.

  Then you must transfer your trust from your good works to the One who made it possible for you to be adopted into this family.  In other words, you must believe on the Lord Jesus Christ as your personal Savior (Acts 16:31).  Why?  He died for your sins…and rose again bodily from the grave (1 Corinthians 15:3-8).  He alone can save you.

  A Simple Transaction.  Yes, believing on the Lord Jesus Christ is the only requirement that God the Father places on us if we want to enter into His family.  Don’t let others deceive you into thinking that you must earn your way into this family.  It can’t be done this way.  It’s provided to all of us as a free gift.  While it’s free to us, it cost God the Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, His life.  He died as the just one for us unjust ones (1 Peter 3:18).

  Safe And Secure.  Once you are adopted into this wonderful family you can never be taken out of it.  Nothing can separate you from God’s love (Romans 8:35-39).  Your eternal destiny will be with God forever in heaven.

  Resistance.  While you are in the process of making your decision to be adopted into God’s family or not, you can be sure that the one who is your current father, the devil, will do all that he can to keep you from making this critical decision.  The struggle may be a great one but you should know that God is greater and stronger than the devil is (1 John 4:4).

  It’s Up To You.  What is your decision going to be?  Will it be to remain in the devil’s family and end up with him in hell (Matthew 25:41) or to enter into God’s family by faith? 

  I Did It.  I was adopted into God’s family many years ago.  I didn’t deserve it but I’m glad He took me into His family the moment I trusted in the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal Savior. I can sing, “Amazing grace! How sweet the sound/ That saved a wretch like me!/ I once was lost, but now am found,/ Was blind but now I see.”

  What Does This Mean?  I’ve been saved from the penalty of sin. I’m being saved from the power of sin.  I will be saved from the presence of sin.

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